For JWs to cling to the idea that they will never die as part of their "reward" is a illusion that the WTS has woven for the rank and file since 1935.
I'm still in touch with various congregations and I think I can safely say that quite many JWs, if not the majority, don't bother much about ever seing A coming. They have made their own the idea that, through the 1995 change, the society itself has postponed A to an undetermined future, although they have been urged not to do so themselves, mentally. Basically, what makes many JW stick together is social life. The best evidence of this is that they avoid carefully any "spiritual" topic in their social gathering and look suspisciously to anyone who tries to draw the conversation on that ground. I experienced it not long ago during a meal as, "between pear and cheese" I mentioned that according the age pyramid of the world population, there are about 6 hundred million babies and infants below age 4 and one simply couldn't accept that Jah should destroy 10 000 babies for every spared witness. Witnesses just skip the argument, they don't want to be disturbed in their day to day routine, from bottom to top of the hierarchy.